of a silly little thing called love

my bestfriend, has fallen in love again :), but with a three-year-boy younger than her. i was shocked after receiving this, knowing that she is a play-hard type of girl, i know it is not easy for her to say that she had found someone. but the truth is i am happy for it, it is a good starting for her to move on and not to dwell in the past.

you see, a lot of my good friends, most of them were my schoolmates, we are sharing the same pattern of perceiving love. take my bestfriend A for instance, she has been looking a guy that has similar traits like her ex boyfriend, although she is indeed a beauty she could get anyone if she wants to. so, there is a sense of loyalty in her that made us pretty much the same when it comes to Love.

another instance is my best friend B. her first love was when she was adolescent, perhaps in her thirteen. people usually label it as a puppy love and surprisingly it is more than that. she is now still madly in love with the same person that she used to cry over and tell you, it is not an easy road that she had chosen. after many years they had not been seeing each other, the similar feeling remains untouched. the power of love? think about it.

my best friend C who is known for her firm and obstinate character surprised me when she told me about her heart break story. did not only it broke her heart but it made her way thinner. (sometimes i wish it would happen to me too, so i can get rid of these lazy bum ;p). we were very much distant by the distance, although i dont have any experience of being heartbroken, i know that was the most serious affliction that could ever happen to a woman. but now, she is living happily in her own skin after months/years to get over him and i am hoping for her new relationship to be long lasted.

my best friend D, has never fall in love and never decided to settle in a foul relationship like i did once. and she's like all of my friends, is charming, pretty, cute, smart and kind. so it is puzzling to know a person like her is still single. (i am belong into that group too, hehe) and she keeps telling me, she has not yet found 'The Man', and we will be giggling all night while talking of these future project of getting 'The Man'. i dont see any reason of calling people like us as choosy, because it is way better to be singleton rather than stranded in a foul relationship. trust me, i had tried it.

therefore, conclusion that i can draw is that me and my smexy girlfriends, we don't belong into a group of women who think that love is a science project, that you have to try and test it for making it a success. to me, love is a pure feeling that will come to everyone of us, it is a matter of time that makes us all different.

so,

dont stop believing :)